"He came into my life dancing"... On December 8, 2021, Thomas G. Washburn, 75, of Groton, New York, passed away after a long illness. He is survived by his wife, Marcia, his brother Jim Washburn, his sons Joel Washburn, Robert Carlo and Michael Carlo, his wife Heather and their son, Evan, along many nieces and nephews and wonderful friends. A graduate of Gouverneur High School he lived his life as a union carpenter with a few years of trucking thrown in before illness forced his retirement in 2008. He was a wonderful husband, father and friend to many and will be missed. As per his wishes there will be no services. He's dancing with his grandma in heaven now.